Important Advice For Womens

IMPORTANT ADVICE FOR WOMENS 



First, correct your beliefs (Aqaaid) and learn the essential Islamic rulings (Masa’il). Then, follow them with full dedication and consistency.
In every act, make sure to follow the way of Rasulullah ï·º. This will bring great spiritual light (Noor) into your heart.
Do not use charms or superstitions for having or keeping children alive.
Stay away from anything related to shirk (polytheism), its practices, and do not go for fortune-telling.
Avoid making vows (mannat) in the name of anyone other than Allah.
Observe proper hijab (purdah) from all men from whom Shariah requires it — even if they are close relatives like brothers-in-law, uncles, cousins, etc.
Do not wear un-Islamic clothing — such as dresses exposing the belly, back, wrists, or arms, or transparent clothes that reveal the body or hair. Avoid all such attire.
Wear loose and thick clothes with long sleeves, and cover your head with a dupatta properly. It’s fine to uncover your head only when no non-mahram man is present at home.
Do not look at others secretly or with spying eyes.
Do not perform any action to show off or seek fame.
Avoid cursing, mocking, or backbiting others.
Offer all five daily prayers on time with full concentration, reciting calmly and performing bowing and prostration properly.
If you own gold or silver jewelry, calculate its value and pay the due Zakat.
Obey your husband, do not spend his wealth secretly, and serve him sincerely — it is a form of worship.
Never listen to songs, music, or similar things.
If you have learned to read the Qur’an, recite it daily.
Before reading or buying any Islamic book, show it to a reliable scholar (‘Aalim) and only take it if it is authentic.
When someone says something against your wish, be patient and don’t react quickly — especially in anger. Control yourself.
Do not consider yourself superior, pious, or great.
Do not speak ill of sinful people.
Never look down upon any Muslim, even if they are a sinner or of lower status.
Think carefully before speaking. Make sure what you say is free from harm and brings some benefit — worldly or religious — only then speak.
Avoid greed for wealth, status, or honor.
Do not mix excessively with people without need. When you meet, be polite, and when the matter is done, separate yourself gracefully.
Do not justify your mistakes. When you realize you are wrong, admit it immediately.
Always trust in Allah, present your needs to Him, and pray for steadfastness in religion.

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