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Replies Given by Some Women and the Hadith Warning

Look at some cases of replies that come from women:  

Case 1: Hmm, well I do not wear burqa, purdah of the eyes is enough. This is the modern generation, live and let women live too.  

I will wear every type of clothes, tight, transparent. If someone has a problem then he should not raise his eyes to look at me.  

Case 2: If you wear burqa then wear it a little in style, understood! If you tie that thick big bun on the head and cover, then it gives a look like old film actresses. Simple covering looks outdated on the head.  

Hazrat Abu Huraira raziallahu anhu narrated that the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi wasallam said: There are two groups of the people of hell whom I have not seen, they will appear after me.  

1. Some people will be carrying whips like the tails of oxen with which they will beat people.  

2. Women who will be clothed yet naked, attracting others toward themselves and being attracted toward others.  

Their heads will be puffed up like the humps of large camels that are bent.  

These women will not enter jannah and will not even smell the fragrance of jannah, although the fragrance of jannah is perceived from such and such distance.  

[Mishkat 306, Sahih Muslim]  

Note: Women who wear bare and tight clothes should reflect on the warning mentioned in this hadith.  

Nowadays burqa and hijab itself has become an example of the warning in this hadith, because it is being used to attract others.  

Use Islamic hijab, use burqa that is plain and loose fitting.  

Be concerned for the hereafter. The world compared to the hereafter is like the water in the eye of a needle compared to the ocean.  

May Allah Ta‘ala grant us concern for the hereafter and save us from shamelessness.

Replies Given by Some Women and the Hadith Warning

In every generation, Muslims encounter questions about faith, modesty, worship, and daily life. Sometimes, when Islamic advice is offered with kindness and wisdom, it is accepted with gratitude. At other times, however, some people respond with excuses or dismissive remarks instead of reflecting on the reminder. This article is not meant to criticize or judge anyone. Rather, it encourages self-reflection in light of authentic Islamic teachings.

Islam teaches believers to approach advice with humility. Every Muslim, whether man or woman, is capable of making mistakes, and every believer benefits from sincere reminders that bring them closer to Allah.

Accepting Advice with an Open Heart

When someone receives a reminder based on the Qur'an or authentic Hadith, the best response is to consider it carefully. No one is expected to be perfect overnight. Growth in faith is a lifelong journey, and sincere efforts are valued by Allah.

Sometimes people may respond by saying, "Allah knows my heart," "Everyone has their own choice," or "Faith is personal." While it is true that Allah alone knows what is in every heart, Islam also teaches that faith is reflected in both belief and actions. A sincere believer strives to improve whenever they learn something beneficial.

The Importance of Respecting the Teachings of Islam

Muslims are encouraged to speak respectfully about Islamic teachings and to avoid treating religious guidance lightly. Even when someone finds a command difficult, responding with respect and humility is part of good character.

A believer may struggle with certain obligations, but acknowledging their importance while asking Allah for strength is very different from rejecting or mocking them.

A Reminder from the Hadith

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) repeatedly encouraged Muslims to remain humble and obedient to Allah. Authentic Hadith warn against arrogance, pride, and deliberately turning away from guidance after it has become clear.

These narrations remind believers that sincere repentance is always open, and that no one should become careless about the commands of Allah. The purpose of these warnings is not to create despair but to encourage people to return to Allah with hope and sincerity.

Avoiding Harsh Judgment

It is important not to judge individuals or assume what is in their hearts. Only Allah has complete knowledge of every person's intentions, struggles, and circumstances.

When advising others, Muslims should speak gently, with wisdom and compassion. Harsh words often push people away, while kindness may inspire positive change.

Responding with Humility

A beautiful response to Islamic advice might be:

• "May Allah guide me and help me improve."
• "Please make dua for me."
• "I will try my best, In shaa Allah."
• "Thank you for reminding me."

Such responses reflect humility and a willingness to grow, even when change takes time.

Strengthening Our Own Faith

Before correcting others, every Muslim should first examine their own actions. We all have shortcomings and are in need of Allah's mercy. Instead of focusing only on the mistakes of others, we should ask ourselves how we can become better servants of Allah.

Faith grows through sincere worship, regular repentance, seeking knowledge, and remembering Allah in daily life.

Islam encourages believers to welcome sincere reminders and to respond with respect, humility, and a desire to improve. The warnings found in authentic Hadith are meant to guide hearts toward righteousness, not to discourage people. Every Muslim has the opportunity to repent, learn, and grow closer to Allah.

May Allah grant us sincere hearts, beneficial knowledge, and the ability to accept guidance with humility. Ameen.